Some years ago I
quit carrying purses. (Or handbags or pocketbooks or bags or whatever
you call the things that ladies carry and men don't.) Except for an
occasional after-five event when I have no pockets, I carry a slim wallet
in a pocket and if I have more stuff I attach it to my belt or carry
a backpack or briefcase. However, when I still carried purses I rememer
saying to FFP that a purse I was about to buy "would be the last
one I ever needed because it was the ultimate purse." It was, of
course, not.
After doing away
with buying bags, purses, pocketbooks, whatever, I still had a bag addiction.
Only now it was just wallets, briefcases, backpacks, roller boards,
hanging bags, pack-it aids, etc. I almost couldn't go on a trip without
some new form of carry thing.
In 1977, when we
moved into our current house (and prior to adding about a 1000 square
feet to it) I wrote to my aunts in Dallas that "There is so much
space that we really haven't gotten used to it yet. I think we will
have a severe temptation not to throw anything away." [For the
record, I know I wrote this because she saved the letter and I got it
when she died in the early nineties and I uncovered it in storage today.]
Indeed. Truth is, though, I've discarded suitcases and travel stuff
and briefcases. Still there is a huge pile of it in storage and several
more bags in my trunk and the house.
At least I now know
that I will never find the ultimate bag. Perhaps this will keep me from
continuing to buy them.